Friendships That Are True

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By: Lynn Cowell
Proverbs 31 Speaker

Will she talk about me behind my back? Will she keep a secret? I just don't know if I can trust her.


Thoughts like these tend to run through our head when we meet a new girl we think might make a new friend.


Spending time with the Lord this morning, I read this verse:


"A malicious man disguises himself with lips, but in his heart he harbors deceit." Proverbs 26:24 NIV


Malicious. Pretty big word for me and I wasn't all that sure I knew what it meant. To hate, be an enemy, to be unloved, shunned, to be an adversary or foe.


We've all met girls who have two faces; one in front of this group and another in front of that. So which girl is the real girl? Which one is the one trying to be your friend?


Before you decide whether or not a girl makes a great friend; know her. Truly know her. She may be trustworthy; she may be not. She may have had an experience where she has been betrayed; leaving her jaded or cynical. Bad experiences can make a girl be catty; throwing out sarcasm for free. No one wants to be on the receiving end of painful words. When a person feels unloved, shunned or even hated, those same feelings can end up leaking their way out of their heart and often spill out onto others.


I have heard it said that wounded people wound people. It is a matter of self-defense for the heart.


When you meet a girl for the first time, what are you looking for in a friend and how do you know if she will be true? I know I could use some advice here! Just click on "comments" below!


© 2010 by Lynn Cowell. All rights reserved.


Lynn Cowell lives in Charlotte, NC with her family. They enjoy hiking, football, rugby, white water rafting, fast pitch softball and music.

Lynn loves hanging out with girls and challenging them to run hard after Jesus; to discover Him as the purest lover of their heart and to find that He completely fills every corner and every desire. He alone.

For more from Lynn, visit her blog at www.lynncowell.com and connect with Lynn on Facebook at Lynn Martin Cowell.





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1 Comments:

Anonymous Jessica said...

I look for some common interests and if she's friendly

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